You Look Awful

Posted Oct 2022

You look awful. And that means you are awful. And anyone who admits to what s/he sees is awful. That's what I feel like people are saying when I receive special requests like the one I received this morning.

My new client said that the pictures should not necessarily enlarge insecurities of people.

I feel very concerned when I hear things like that. Other requests that might go along those same lines has been: 'Don't draw my big nose huge. Don't draw my big lips massive. Don't draw my little lips tiny. Don't draw my skin that color. Don't draw my teeth.......

I feel very concerned about such requests. I feel like people are saying that I am supposed to subscribe to some universal agreement about what features are desirable?

I do not want to encourage anyone to hide or camouflage anything about themselves because of shame. That would just strengthen their internally experienced low self esteem. I feel sad to think that some people go through their whole lives like that, some people go through their whole lives trying to hide some unimportant thing about themselves. I hope that my Caricatures can let them know that they are fine. Just the way they are.

If they know they have 'the' feature, and they feel thrilled to see how they might look if I (and supposedly Everyone knows) agree that the feature is 'bad', that just tells them that they're not good enough the way they really are. I don't want to do that. I want to be part of the Solution, and not part of the problem. I want to help people loosen up, not take superficial features so seriously. I want to help them laugh at themselves.

When they see 'the' feature Exaggerated (that's what Caricature means), I hope they will realize that their real countenance is 'not so bad' as they might have been fearing. Aaaand I hope they will be able to see themselves looking beautiful in the exaggerated picture that I draw ~ even if it exaggerated 'the supposedly terrible' feature.

Caricature means Exaggeration. I exaggerate Any shapes I see. No judgement about it.


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